Exhausted from Trying? The Difference Between Maintaining a Relationship and Investing in One
Is your relationship built on mutual investment or exhausting one-sided maintenance? Learn why it's time to stop holding up connections that cannot give back.
Is Your Past Backseat Driving Your Present? The Power of Disentangling Your Emotions
Learn how to uncouple old emotional wounds from your current relationship. Discover the art of emotional disentanglement and build deeper intimacy at Thrival Therapy.
The "Healed" Relationship Myth: Understanding the Quiet Echoes of Residual Trauma
Healing isn’t a video game where you defeat the final boss and trauma disappears. Discover the covert ways "residual trauma" shows up in your relationship as hyper-independence or an obsession with stability, and how to gently break the cycle.
When Your Emotions Become You
What happens when we silence our emotions? They don't magically vanish—they sink into our bodies as chest pressure, stomach knots, and unexplainable anxiety. Written by Brenton Love, LMFT, this powerful post uncovers the dangerous cycle of emotional suppression, why 'pushing through' fails, and how to begin breaking the cycle to reclaim your true self.
Supporting Clients in Consensual Non-Monogamious Relationships: Lessons from The Ethical Slut
Relationships don't have to fit into a traditional mold to be healthy, secure, and fulfilling. Written by Jacquelyn Gurrieri, this post explores consensual non-monogamy (CNM) through the lens of the foundational book The Ethical Slut. Discover how affirming therapy helps individuals and couples navigate open relationships, jealousy, and boundary-setting with radical honesty and zero judgment.
When Spiritual Advice Misses the Mark on Emotional Health: A Clinical Perspective on Emotional Modeling and Parenting
Should parents always hide their frustration and anger from their children? While spiritual leaders often advocate for showing only 'joyful faces' at home, child development research tells a different story. Brenton Love, LMFT breaks down why shielding kids from difficult emotions robs them of a roadmap for life—and what healthy emotional modeling actually looks like.
