When Your Emotions Become You
What happens when we silence our emotions? They don't magically vanish—they sink into our bodies as chest pressure, stomach knots, and unexplainable anxiety. Written by Brenton Love, LMFT, this powerful post uncovers the dangerous cycle of emotional suppression, why 'pushing through' fails, and how to begin breaking the cycle to reclaim your true self.
Supporting Clients in Consensual Non-Monogamious Relationships: Lessons from The Ethical Slut
Relationships don't have to fit into a traditional mold to be healthy, secure, and fulfilling. Written by Jacquelyn Gurrieri, this post explores consensual non-monogamy (CNM) through the lens of the foundational book The Ethical Slut. Discover how affirming therapy helps individuals and couples navigate open relationships, jealousy, and boundary-setting with radical honesty and zero judgment.
When Spiritual Advice Misses the Mark on Emotional Health: A Clinical Perspective on Emotional Modeling and Parenting
Should parents always hide their frustration and anger from their children? While spiritual leaders often advocate for showing only 'joyful faces' at home, child development research tells a different story. Brenton Love, LMFT breaks down why shielding kids from difficult emotions robs them of a roadmap for life—and what healthy emotional modeling actually looks like.
Why Trying to Find the “Perfect” Therapist Keeps You From Even Starting
Starting therapy is like starting at the gym—it’s easy to get overwhelmed by the options. Therapist Brenton Love breaks down why you don’t need a 'perfect' therapist to begin, and why the relationship you build is more important than any specific technique.
Beyond the "Provider" Role: Why Laughter is a Father’s Secret Weapon for Secure Attachment
Are you a high-achiever who finds it hard to 'lighten up' at home? A recent study shows that laughter is actually a high-performance parenting tool. Discover why shared humor is the secret to a secure bond with your child.
Why Your Adult Millennial Child May Have Cut You Off: Understanding Parental Estrangement
Parental estrangement is more common than many realize, affecting 1 in 4 families. While it feels sudden to parents, "cutting ties" is often a Millennial child’s last resort for self-preservation. Discover the common themes behind this disconnect and how a shift in perspective can help open the door to healing.
